rub salt in the wound
To aggravate or exacerbate a physical or emotional injury.
To rub further salt into the wound, the narrow-gauge locomotives and rolling stock received the new corporate blue livery and double arrows logo.
noun
An injury, such as a cut, stab, or tear, to a (usually external) part of the body.
The visitors were without Wayne Rooney after he suffered a head wound in training, which also keeps him out of England's World Cup qualifiers against Moldova and Ukraine.
Showers of blood / Rained from the wounds of slaughtered Englishmen.
A hurt to a person's feelings, reputation, prospects, etc.
It took a long time to get over the wound of that insult.
An injury to a person by which the skin is divided or its continuity broken.
verb
To hurt or injure (someone) by cutting, piercing, or tearing the skin.
The police officer wounded the suspect during the fight that ensued.
To hurt (a person's feelings).
The actor's pride was wounded when the leading role went to his rival.
I find neglect or rejection from my own community much harder to take and more wounding than the same thing or worse from the outside world.