distrain

To squeeze, press, embrace; to constrain, oppress.

But when he heard her answeres loth, he knew / Some secret sorrow did her heart distraine […]

Thus spake the Prince, and gently 'gan distrain / Now him, now her, between his friendly arms.

To force (someone) to do something by seizing their property.

to distrain a person by his goods and chattels

To seize somebody's property in place of, or to force, payment of a debt.

To pull off, tear apart.

For that same net so cunningly was wound, / That neither guile, nor force might it distraine.